Notice how you are in your every day life: how you think, feel, and act. Notice how you feel about yourself when you act certain ways.
The only way to alter a pattern is to first recognize the pattern exists. And then to decide that you want things to be different. And here's the kicker-you need to be ready to live your life differently. You see, you can decide all day long that you want to change, but if you're not ready, nothing is going to happen.
Before working with clients, I interview them. I need to know if they are ready to create a new way of being. Everybody says they want their life to run differently. But are they ready to actually take the necessary steps to make it happen? For some people that step takes years. For some people it may take a whole lifetime. And for some people-it never happens. They are never ready to change. They will just flap their lips about it all their life.
To be ready to change means when somebody offers you a step to take in a new direction-a step in a direction you have never gone, an action you have never done, or an action that you have never done quite this way-when you do it, and you have this faith, and you leap ahead into that new way of being, that is being ready to change. That is knowing you decided to step into your new world and new way of being, and that is the moment the change happens.
Change happens in an instant. People spend their lifetime getting ready to change. The actual shift happens instantly. I want to be sure you know that fact. You are going through this material right now. You are thinking about changing. And you are wanting your world to run a new way.
I want you to really consider, are you ready ti step into that new way? See, when you make changes a lot of things happen in your world. First of all, the people who live with you-your family or your friends who are like family-you are all like a mobile. What happens when you touch one part of a mobile? Well, the whole thing moves.
So if you are part of the mobile, that is your household, and you move, everybody else has to move whether or not they want to move, whether or not they choose to move, decide, or are ready to move-they move. In relation to you, they have to move. And usually they don't like it. So they want you to change back.
But the whole reason you switched your life around was so you could be happier.
So what will happen when you are making the shifts that you have wanted to make for a long time? Some people who aren't happy with your changes, who aren't ready, maybe, to evolve, and move up, and move forward in their lives-those people will fall off the track of being with you. They will disappear from your world.
It might feel a little hard. And it might hurt. But only for a little while. Do you know why? Because when you make the change, you alter your energy. You will attract a whole new set of friends, a whole new set of acquaintances--a whole new way of doing things, and being in the world.
To change your life you must first decide you are ready to change. Then change happens instantly.
Be happier, how to be happier, ready to change.
Ali Bierman shows you how to be happier by changing the unknown belief systems that stop you cold. Grab her free ebook What You Don't Know You Don't Know Runs You to make your life happier now at http://www.creatingthelife.com/ebook.html
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